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Editorial
A good time to come to dinner
At last fall’s Third Annual
Community Forum, Bruce Heckman, who facilitated one of the discussion
groups, kicked off the conversation with what seemed a stroke of inspiration.
The 10 villagers present represented not only a range of ages and interests
but also opposite sides of past village controversies. At the beginning,
there may have been a bit of wariness in the room.
To begin the discussion, Heckman asked us to remember
the last time we felt a “swoosh” of love for living in Yellow
Springs. One woman spoke of the pleasure she takes going downtown Friday
nights, starting off at the Little Art, then walking down Xenia Avenue
to a creative meal at the Winds Cafe. On the way, she passes people spilling
out of the wine tasting at the Emporium, and feels lucky to live in such
a lively town.
Another woman spoke of shopping downtown Saturday mornings,
buying fresh vegetables at the Farmer’s Market, chatting with friends,
then heading for coffee and more chatting with friends. Another villager
spoke of her young daughter’s recent birthday party, and her deep
appreciation for the caring her child receives from other village adults.
A man talked of the community concert hosted by Dave Chappelle, and how
connected he felt that night to others in town.
Most likely, even without Heckman’s introduction,
we would have had a similarly substantive, respectful discussion about
thorny local challenges. But the conversation-starter seemed to deepen
the connection between us, to remind us of all we have in common.
Over the past year villagers have faced several critical
issues, starting with difficult budget discussions, then the property
tax levy, followed shortly after by the Fogg farm annexation request.
For many it’s been a time of heightened anxiety, heightened tension,
perhaps heightened wariness between villagers with different perspectives
on how best to address local challenges. It’s been easy to forget
what we have in common.
This weekend offers villagers one unique local opportunity
to find that commonality again. “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner,”
the April 14 event sponsored by the AACW, lets us share a meal with people
we may not know, or may not know well. Organizers select dinner groups
with an eye to unlikely pairings — plumbers with college professors,
peace activists with Wright Patt employees — and an intent of racial,
cultural and economic diversity. The event is playful, surprising, and
an excellent way to deepen our understanding of this little town. “Guess
Who’s Coming to Dinner” only rolls around once a year. My
bet is, if you go, you’ll have a good time.
—Diane Chiddister
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