At age 66, Barth learns to begin again
by learning to fly
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| Nora Barth received her
pilot’s license in May after a year of lessons and study. |
By Diane Chiddister
Nora Barth isn’t the first 66-year-old
woman who found that, at a time when her life should be settled, she had
to begin again. She isn’t the first whose decades-long marriage
crumbled, and who found herself, in a world full of couples, suddenly
solo.
Barth certainly isn’t the first to face these
difficulties. But she may be one of the few to come out of one of life’s
challenges with a pilot’s license in hand and a plan to move to
Morocco.
When Barth’s marriage fell apart in May 2004,
she said, she did what most people do.She felt hopeless. She went on and
on to her friends. But she also did what many people could not imagine
in a difficult time — she followed her dream. Most of all, she said,
she always wanted to learn how to fly.
After a year of hard work and learning, Barth reached
her goal on May 25, when she earned her pilot’s license from Flight
Basics Flight School in Springfield, becoming the first woman and the
oldest student to graduate from the school.
Barth’s flight school graduation followed a year
of lessons and intense study. A week after her husband moved out of their
Dayton Street home, she aimed her car to the Springfield airport and the
sign she had passed countless times. The sign offered flying lessons but
Barth had always cruised by. First she had three children to raise, then
there was work, and flying lessons cost way too much money. But last year,
Barth decided, there was absolutely every reason to learn how to fly.
“You reach a certain age when if you don’t
do something, you won’t get to do it,” she said in a recent
interview. “I’m not getting better and better. I’m getting
older and older.”
After Barth signed up for lessons, she found herself
within days at the controls of a small plane, with her teacher beside
her. She taxied down the runway, pulled back on the throttle and headed
up into the sky.
Immediately, Barth said, she fell in love.
“I adore the feeling of flight. It’s
like walking on air,” she said. Even better, she found, she left
her problems down below. “It seemed I left my life behind me on
the ground. Pain, anger — in the air they all went away. It was
a freedom from myself.”
Barth threw herself into her new love with her characteristic
intensity. She took lessons as often as she could afford to, about twice
a week, and diligently studied aviation rules. She has always loved learning
new things, Barth said, and throughout her life has been an occupational
therapist, a potter, a weaver, an engineer and a dog trainer. But she
learned those things years ago, and found that at her age learning posed
more of a challenge. But that challenge didn’t daunt her.
“Learning is harder now, but I still love
it,” she said. “So it’s difficult. So what?”
To her flying teacher, Toby Eastin, Barth was a promising
student because she wanted so badly to learn.
“She was determined,” he said. “She
was well-prepared and persistent.”
Eastin, who has been flying for three decades, said
he has two types of students. There are the young people who want to become
professional pilots and then the older ones, like Barth, who “always
wanted to fly and now find themselves with the time and money,”
he said. While the younger ones have excellent eye/hand coordination,
they may lack the persistence to learn ground school regulations and may
also lack good decision-making skills. The older pilots, like Barth, can
make up for older bodies with diligence and good sense.
“Nora was exceptional in decision-making,”
he said.
Barth is the first to admit that things didn’t
always go smoothly, and she laughs with Eastin about some of her rockier
initial landings. Flying proved more difficult than she expected, she
said, and especially challenging was mastering the aeronautical lingo
that she needs to communicate with airports and other pilots. But she
persisted and found that, as well as loving the feeling of flight, she
loved the beauty of the new world that she saw from above. Last winter,
she took her first solo flight.
“You see the ground and the houses covered
with snow, the edges of the fields outlined, the houses with white roofs,
and you’re flying in this crystalline air,” she said. “It’s
just gorgeous. It’s so beautiful you almost forget to fly.”
As well as learning to fly, Barth tried other new paths.
She traveled to the Galápagos Islands this year and will soon go
to Alaska. She always loved traveling, she said, but during her marriage
didn’t do much. Now, she does.
Her travels will soon take her further afield. Barth
has applied to the Peace Corps, and she has been notified that she is
being considered for a position in Morocco, working with craftswomen.
She would like nothing better than helping third-world women make a living,
she said, and fervently hopes that she passes the physical that she plans
to take shortly.
But she has a fall-back plan, too. If she doesn’t
make the Peace Corps, Barth plans to join an air safari group in Australia,
where she will spend three weeks flying a small plane around a continent
she’s never been to before.
In the meantime, though, Barth is selling the home
she has lived in for decades. A native New Yorker, she came to Yellow
Springs to attend Antioch College, from which she graduated in 1961. She
moved to New York for a few years, then she and her husband came back
to Yellow Springs, where she has lived ever since. She hates leaving the
longtime friends she has made, she said, along with her many new single
friends. But she believes that she needs to leave town to complete her
emotional healing, so after her house sells, she will move to Boulder,
Colo.
This Saturday, July 30, Barth’s home at 317 Dayton
Street will go up for auction, along with antiques, furniture and household
goods. The auction will begin at 10 a.m.
The last year has been both the most difficult one
of her life and one of the most rewarding, Barth said.
“In a way it’s been a wonderful year,”
she said. “I’ve learned so much. I’ve learned I’m
a big risk-taker. I’ve learned new social skills and met wonderful
single women. I’m tremendously optimistic about what there is out
there for me.”
If you hear the buzz of a small plane above on a blue-sky
summer day, you might want to look up. It could be Nora Barth, flying
off to her newest adventure.
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